There’s a book called The Straight Girl’s Guide to Sleeping with Chicks by Jen Sincero. It explains how, first and foremost, women should get in touch with their own bodies in order to help them touch other women’s bodies. The author also states that while it’s important for straight girls to explore their sexual appetites, they should always be honest about their intentions when seducing bisexuals, lesbians, or other straight girls.
Here’s a mostly harmless anecdote for you: In the past thirteen years since I’ve been out, I’ve been approached three times to have a threesome, once with a lesbian couple and twice with straight couples. For the record, I shyly replied no to all six people. Also for the record, I barely have enough energy for one person, let alone two other people simultaneously.
But I must admit that it’s very flattering when two people are attracted to me at the same time. It does wonders for my self-esteem. However, what I don’t find flattering, but downright offensive, is when a straight girl in a couple goes behind her boyfriend’s back and tries to initiate a sexual encounter. This has also happened to me.
I find it baffling when straight girls think that because they’re fucking other girls, they’re not being unfaithful to their boyfriends. No dick = no cheating.
Dick or no dick, sex is sex. You’re deluding yourself if you think otherwise. One of my best buddies in the whole wide world felt that lesbians would never really know what penetration was unless they had a dick inside of them. I said that’s why dildos were invented. He then said lesbians needed a warm dick, not something cold and impersonal. I then took the time to explain what fisting was. He turned really pale and apologized. He also said he felt threatened by this. How could his dick compare to the size of a fist? He’s right. He should feel threatened.
However, it’s not so much that girl-on-girl sex is different than girl-on-boy sex. It’s the delusion that women having sex with other women isn’t real sex. Granted, if you’ve come to this conclusion by watching a lot of bad straight porn, then I can forgive you…but only to a certain extent.
May I suggest you watch One Night Stand? It’s a fantastic movie with real women who simply want to fuck other women. And that’s exactly what they do. They fuck. It’s hard-core, it’s sexy, and it makes you squirm in your seat. Watch it. Then come back and tell me girl-on-girl sex isn’t real. I fucking dare you.
For more information on the movie: http://www.onenightstand-lefilm.com/ons.html
Oh it’s real baby, it’s real… Nobody can tell me that last night wasn’t real fucking
huhu any “scissoring” in this movie?